"Do you want A, B, C or none of the above. Tell me quick, which one you want, or I'll come up with more choices."
When I gave people 'choices',it was really just a list of options. Real freedom isn't a list of options: it is allowing the other person to tell you what it is that they need. 'Allowing' is the operative word in the previous sentence. Most of the time I demanded a choice of the options that I gave to other people.
In the other blog, you will still find a 'list' of options. What you will also find in the other blog, is arguments to get you to come from my point of view.
I still enjoy arguments, not everyone does. If you enjoy arguments, go to the other blog. If you want heartfelt serenity, stay here. When I go into the 'shady space' here, I will do my best to bring 'the light' back inside.
It is not what I am accustomed to doing when I write.
This is going to be tough....
